New mom, fairly new to saskatoon!


Demelza Thompson's picture
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Hello mommies!


My name is Demelza (29yrs old) and I am mom to 3 month old Felix. I am finally getting through that first time fog (getting some sleep now - hurrah!) and thought it was time to introduce myself and my family. I am married to a lovely prairies man called Spence. I myself am from the UK originally but have *just* received my permanent residency. I have been here since April last year but am still getting to know the City as we only have one car which my hubby has to take to work unfortunately (boo).


We live a few blocks from Aden Bowman School in the Churchill/Adelaide area and I would love to meet some new moms to go for walks or meet up at broadway for a coffee etc. I don't know too many people in town and not many with young kids and I have realised how important it is to meet other families who can offer advice, encouragement or just a friendly smile when stress levels are high!!!


Speaking of which, does anyone have any funny ways of dealing with grumpy old ladies?!?!? I was having a coffee with my mother-in-law (no I am not referring to her, tee hee) and Felix started to get fussy and cry. I was doing all I could to soothe him while my MiL ran to the car to get my nursing pillow (the power of the boob) and another coffee shop inhabitant kept on staring at me and glaring and shaking her head as if she had never heard a baby cry before and that I was the worst mom ever. I thought about bouncing Felix up and down after feeding him and walking over so he would projectile spit up on the little scowler but refrained. I get so up tight when people stare when he cries and I wonder if anyone had any tricks of coping with it. (I guess in a few more months I wont worry so much what other people think....)


Well now I have written an essay I had better sign off. Please shoot me an email if anyone would like to meet up sometime! Thanks!


 


 

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jordanandnoahsmommy's picture
hi

Hi I'm a mom of 2 boys 3 and 21 months just thought i'd say a quick hello


Bob Cain's picture


Hi Demelza


Just wanted to say ' I hear you' I moved here with my husband from UK Jan 2007. Our baby girl was born November 2007. We only have one car between us. But people have been very generous about giving us rides so we've managed to get out and about. We have a parent and baby group just started at the circle drive alliance church on Thursday afternoons, and I bet someone would be able to offer you a ride if you're interested. Also the  newcomers group is a great way to meet people - email me for details bobcrandley@hotmail.com


Hope to meet you soon


Bob (Roberta) Cain


Demelza Thompson's picture


Wow it only takes me 2 months to reply to emails these days? That is an improvement to when Felix was first born!!!


I would love to come to your mom group one Thursday, I would need a lift though, maybe you could ask your moms if any live in the churchill area (I'm a couple blocks from Aden Bowman School) and if they would be willing to pick me and little Felix up. i would be more than happy to pay gas money.


So where in the UK you were from? It would be nice to meet a fellow brit!


Take care and have a good day,


Demelza :)


 


Bob Cain's picture

Hi


Good to hear from you. I might be able to give you a ride next week. Let me know your address at bobcrandley@hotmail.com


I was originally from near Richmond, Surrey in the UK and have lived in various parts of Surrey, Hampshire and Somerset.


Hope to meet you soon.


Bob